Sigh. I just realized a few
things and I would like to share it with you guys.
11. I am being unfair. Or not.
I
always think that I'm giving these people the chances they ask from me and,
well, they do deserve. But after so many things, I realized that I may not
actually be giving them these chances. I may appear to, but in the long run, it
seems like I haven’t actually given them anything but a “bonus” time, not a
real game credit. I give them their second chances, give them time to learn and
change, but I also always tell them they’re not getting any better. And that’s
just plain unfair. Or not, just so I thought. I don’t know, I feel, and some
people will agree with me when I tell them, that sometimes some people just
really don’t learn, or, to some extent, don’t want to. Some people, on the
other hand, keep stalling their learning process by looking for counter
arguments about something bad about themselves that a lot of people agree on.
Sigh, I would like to elaborate, but then I have to cite people and events, and
I really don’t want to do that right now. Anyway I trust that you get the idea.
22. I should just go ahead and stop trying to help other
people.
Basically,
some people don’t want to learn, are perfectly comfortable with who they are,
and don’t really care about what other people think of them. So yeah. I need to
stop playing Heroine of the Year because that’ll never happen.
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