Is it always about how pretty a girl is? Ugh

I'm gonna be pretty straightforward with this one. It’s one of the things that need immediate attention, and I think we should discuss this. Haha

I’ve had many male friends in my life. Actually, I recall having more male friends than female friends when I was a kid. And one thing I learned from them is that given a choice between a girl and a prettier girl, most of them would choose the prettier, even if the other girl is smarter, nicer, more fun, and has more similarities with them than Little Miss Pretty does.

Of course many would say that this is a million-year-old observation, given that the above was observed on my childhood friends. But is it? Girls, look around you. Those who are, well, prettier (come on, there’s no point in denying) are those who get the guys, or at least in the honest sense. And where do the nice girls go? Yes, the realm of the female Friendzone.

I seriously think that the female Friendzone is more complex and depressing. Females are naturally competitive but insecure. Being in the Friendzone brings down their self-esteem that may affect them in many ways. So while the guy and Little Miss Pretty strolls into Loveland, you’re stuck in the realm of the Friendzone, depressing yourself over some person who isn’t worth it.

Guys! Wake up! Here is a girl, talking about how her insecurities drag her down because you treat her like nothing special. Is it always about how pretty a girl is? Is it always about having the most attractive girlfriends? I understand the very human pursuit of the best things in life, but I ask, is outer attractiveness the best criteria? Ugh.

Sometimes I think that the male mind is easier to predict because they fall into a few patterns. How they carry out these patterns are what makes them different (I'm still trying to decipher the guy code and this theory so yeah). Still, they are on to a specific plane of thought and actions.

I think I’ve made my point. -xosigrid